Cultivating Insight, Part One
Sunday, June 20th, 2010There are different kinds of impasses.
There is the true impasse, from which we can only turn back and withdraw.
There is the false impasse, which, when seen accurately, is actually an obstacle that can be circumvented.
There is the receding impasse, at which we become trapped because we do not believe we have actually come to an impasse.
There is the sticky impasse, to which we keep returning despite being turned back every time.
There is the hard impasse, which can only be broken through by using sharp, abrupt force.
And there is the soft impasse, which can only be broken through by using slow, gentle pressure.
Each of these impasses can, in turn, exist externally or internally.
Come to recognize true impasses quickly and accurately. Don’t waste energy testing them. Turn around and return to your last decision—reconsider it in light of what you now know and make whatever course correction you need to. True wisdom does not waste a single moment on true impasses.
Come to recognize false impasses quickly and accurately. Repeatedly test their resistance to your advance, looking for the motives behind the obstacles. Review your recent decisions and actions, considering whether the present obstacles are a backlash to your own doings. Clarify your own motives, both to yourself and others. Just because it is not a true impasse does not mean you are heading in the right direction: make sure your true path lies on the other side of such obstacles before trying to overcome them.
Come to recognize receding impasses quickly and accurately. These impasses are like the horizon—they constantly recede as we advance, giving the illusion of unimpeded freedom of movement. And like the horizon, they also follow us when we retreat, always keeping the same distance from us, for it is their seeming remoteness that creates the bounds and limits of our opportunities. Don’t blindly accept others’ claims about the quality of your freedom or the absence of better alternatives. Think for yourself. Judge for yourself. The largest cage is still a cage.
Come to recognize sticky impasses quickly and accurately. These impasses are like gravity—they exert a constant pull on us, so that no matter how often we appear to escape their influence, we feel compelled to return to them time and time again. Here the wish to change something is just as profound as our inability to do so. This in turn creates a situation in which we simply cannot let go of something we know we should. Keep reminding yourself that you have gone over this same ground many times and each time realized that the problem cannot be solved nor the hope fulfilled as things stand now. Promise yourself that you will return to it again if things ever change. Every time it comes to mind and you are tempted to revisit it, push yourself away just as you would from the dining table when you are too full to eat another bite. Pull your attention back to the present moment and don’t allow it to be pulled away into the past or future.
Come to recognize hard impasses quickly and accurately. Such impasses appear formidable but they have a brittle nature. Because its presence is so imposing and intimidating, the hard impasse is unaccustomed to any reaction but acquiescence and compliance. This makes it susceptible to unexpected and forceful reactions that upset its equilibrium—especially reactions that shock its rigid and often hypocritical sense of propriety, dignity, or morality. It is the weight of authority and established precedents that gives the hard impasse its sense of indomitability—but these very strengths can be confused and overcome by the truly novel and incongruous response. Do not test its strength beforehand—feign compliance until the moment comes to strike. Then forego all timidity and act with absolute confidence and certainty of purpose. Strike like a thunderbolt at its blind spot and the hard impasse will splinter and collapse. Of all the kinds of impasses there are, this is the rarest.
Come to recognize soft impasses quickly and accurately. Such impasses are impenetrable in the short run but can eventually be breached by stubbornly patient encouragement. This kind of impasse is built of weakness: it has been attacked, betrayed, undermined, and ignored to the point that its defenses are the only part of it that show. Distrust and hardship have made it strong: nothing can enter without its explicit permission and that permission is long in coming. Take the long view and adopt a demeanor of polite respect and disinterested concern. Like the wind working against the soft places in stone until it erodes a hole right through, gradually prove your trustworthiness through consistently beneficial actions. And just as the wind does not react to the stone but, rather, acts upon the stone, don’t react to the ingrained defenses thrown up by this impasse but, rather, exert a uniformly encouraging influence on its protected heart. It is by gradual influence upon the heart of the soft impasse alone that we are granted permission to pass and advance on our way. Of all the kinds of impasses there are, this is the most common.
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This is the I Ching trigram for Wind. It symbolizes the ability to gain entry everywhere by means of steady, gentle effort. As such, it represents spiritual penetration and the gradual unfolding of understanding that leads to wisdom. It speaks of our need to dedicate ourselves to the lifelong perfecting of character whereby our blinders of opinion fall away, freeing us to perceive the world as it truly is. By sensing the patient influence of Wind within, we train ourselves to embody inner Insight.
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The above is an excerpt from The Spiritual Basis of Good Fortune by William Douglas Horden.
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